Healing Touch

What is the role of healing touch in modern medicine?

I'm not talking about "energy therapy" used by alternative therapy practitioners. I'm referring to when a healthcare professional, caregiver, family member or friend gives you a simple handshake or hand squeeze. A pat on the back. A few strokes on your forearm. 

A few weeks ago I was lying prone on the gurney used for stereotactic breast biopsies. I couldn't see anything but the wall. Toward the end of the longer-than-usual procedure, the radiologist gently and wordlessly rubbed my upper back for a few seconds, as if to say, "I know this is uncomfortable. You're doing fine. This is almost over. I care."

Am I reading into this? Probably not. A recent article in the NYTimes describes a study that explored the emotions sent and received by touch. "Most touches were only about five seconds, but in these fleeting moments, we’re capable of communicating distinct emotions, just as we are with the face [i.e., with facial expressions]."

Even with political correctness narrowing the opportunities to touch others, there is something special -- healing -- about the gentle and appropriate touch of someone who is caring for you, especially when you are vulnerable.

Others may be reluctant to touch you, afraid of hurting you or offending you in some way. As a Healthy Survivor you can help others know when and what type of touch is healing and guide others away from touch that is not helpful. 

Comments

[kate]

I so agree with you. From the standpoint of a receiver and a giver, I know that touch sends a powerful message of care and concern. I remind myself of this every day when I go to work.