Healthy Survivors learn to balance serenity and courage in healing ways. But serenity is not the only emotional state that Healthy Survivors balance with courage, as reflected in these Variations on a Theme by Niebuhr:
serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.
patience to wait when healing requires time, courage to undergo more treatment when needed, and wisdom to know the difference.
discipline to weigh good options, courage to reject bad advice, and wisdom to know the difference.
freedom to nourish realistic hopes, courage to abandon false hopes, and wisdom to know the difference.
composure to trust my doctors and nurses when they have all they need, courage to question my doctors and nurses when they may need more, and wisdom to know the difference.
determination to be independent when I can, courage to ask for help when required, and wisdom to know the difference.
power to repress upsetting thoughts that only hurt, courage to work through upsetting thoughts that can help, and wisdom to know the difference.
stamina to keep pushing when it can improve the outcome, courage to adjust when now is the best it can be and wisdom to know the difference.
energy to be with people who care, courage to avoid people who pull me down, and wisdom to know the difference.
persistence to pursue goals that inspire, courage to let go of dreams that only frustrate, and wisdom to know the difference.
flexibility to shift direction from a failing approach, courage to stay the course when it deserves more time, and wisdom to know the difference.
vision to appreciate what remains, courage to grieve what’s been lost, and wisdom to know the difference.
humility to pray as if everything depends on You, courage to act as if everything depends on me, and wisdom to do both.
by Wendy S. Harpham, MD (2005)*
* Published in Happiness in a Storm. Facing Illness and Embracing Life as a Healthy Survivor
Wow-excellent, there's one for every day of healthy surviving! Today I'll go with "persistence to pursue goals that inspire, courage to let go of dreams that only frustrate, and wisdom to know the difference," and work hard on the wisdom bit...Thanks!
Posted by: ria | September 28, 2009 at 06:50 AM