Why would oncologists (or any physicians) not say "good-bye" when they know this is the last office visit for a patient before being transferred to hospice care?
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Denise commented on yesterday's post "I would feel badly if my oncologist referred me to hospice, he said goodbye, and I had no further contact with him..." Is it unrealistic to expect oncologists to stay involved with patients who are now in hospice?
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How can compassionate physicians suggest hospice without causing the patient to lose all hope?
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Commenting on a recent post, "Talking About Death,"Judy, an experienced hospice nurse, shares two illustrative experiences with end-of-life care -- one good, one awful.
A question came up: "What should an oncologist do if the patient and family insist on more treatment so the patient won't lose hope?"
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Healthy Survivors learn to embrace some of the unavoidable discomforts of life. For example, I've learned to embrace the uncertainty regarding my prognosis. So my interest was peaked when I was offered a review copy of Zig Ziglar's new book,
Embrace the Struggle. Living Life on Life's Terms.
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Today I had the honor of addressing a small group of oncology fellows at Baylor University Medical Center. "Fellows" are physicians who have completed their internal medicine training and are now receiving training in a specialty (in this case, oncology). I shared stories, insights and advice.
Here are a few of the tips I offered:
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Patients obtain medical information not only from their healthcare team but also from the Internet. Time Magazine's Bonnie Rochman discusses one potential benefit of this phenomenon in a fascinating article entitled, "When Patients Share Medical Data Online."
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Discussions about end-of-life can benefit patients and their families in dramatic ways. Unfortunately, the emotional discomforts for both physicians and patients often serve as insurmountable obstacles to initiating these important discussions.
A study at the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute and reported in JAMA may help.
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Jane Brody, the NY Times Personal Health columnist, has been guiding Americans on matters of health since 1965. On occasion she offers readers a glimpse into her personal life, such as the time she described the uncontrolled pain she suffered following her knee replacements.
This week, Jane Brody shares a deeply personal life event in real time: the dying of her husband of 43 years.
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I'm sure to some people, my flag of names doesn't look like much. To me, the ribbons tell stories of love and loss, resilience and hope.
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This morning I attended an unveiling. It's been a whole year since the funeral.
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I would never call cancer "a gift" in my life. But without doubt many good things have happened because of my illness. I mention the most important silver linings in my poem, The View From Remission.
Here is one gift to make life easier for any woman currently undergoing chemotherapy:
Continue reading "Cleaning for a Reason" »
We've been discussing the importance of valuing the time it takes primary care physicians to listen to their patients.
Continue reading "Listening to Patient's Stories" »
What does it mean to "value" the time and expertise of primary care clinicians (PCPs)?
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In yesterday's post I explained why combining college and med school into six years is not a good antidote to the primary care shortage (in my opinion). Here are other ideas that might help encourage medical students to go into primary care:
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The author of a recent post on YJHM (the companion blog for the Yale Journal for Humanities in Medicine) suggested that combining college and med school into six years is a good idea as an antidote to the primary care shortage.
I, too, am concerned about the growing shortage of primary care clinicians. But this idea worries me.
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How do you help patients who hate to ask for help?
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